I would recommend reading Angela Saini's book, "Inferior" and her latest book, The Patriarchs. Also, she has studied some of the best anthropologists and scientists and thinkers on these issues you bring up. Ashley Montague is one. His book, The Natural Superiority of Women is dynamite. These books changed my life and finally helped me to understand what had been pushed down my throat all my life. It was just as evil as the race lies, rooted in white supremacy. Patriarchy is not some natural thing; it is a choice that was made by men, most likely, at least initially, men from the region that is Russia today. They then exported this ideology and it took root. I will never call myself a Feminist. It is a total cop-out to me. We are human beings, women and men, and for the most part, we are all capable of doing the same tasks and things. Women are oppressed globally by an evil system, called Patriarchy (that is the term we have). Just as African people face white supremacy, women have to somehow navigate this ridiculous system of domination. I reject it totally but 90 percent of the men I know, think this is normal. They think this is how things are supposed to be. It is difficult to live in this world right now. It is so completely screwed up with these arrogant individuals setting the course of the planet. I am sick of it. Here's a link to Saini. She has done lectures, podcasts, talks, etc. She is well worth it and there are no absolutes either in her thinking. Also, have a pen ready to write down all the studies and other writers doing this repair work.