You can accept #2 and indigenous cultures can still be flawed and in need of evolution. The West conquered many of these nations and imposed their world on them. It doesn’t mean either of them is right. Also, the point about patriarchy is bigger. Patriarchy we know now has not always existed. It is a system that was imposed on women and all of us through brute force, violence and misinformation. It is older than white supremacy and even more normalized. Those cultural practices exist because of it. So, I disagree there is an either/or. There isn’t. They are both wrong. They both are patriarchal societies.